No Good Deed Goes Unpunished
I'm sure you've all heard the saying No Good Deed Goes Unpunished, and to some extent that may seem true, so why try?
In my opinion, society as a whole is filled will good people looking to do the right thing. Recently, I was traveling out of state for business and lost my wallet. After three days on the road and many trips retracing my steps I was unsuccessful in retrieving my wallet and had concluded my credit cards, government ID and cash were lost for good. Upon returning home early the following week I found multiple messages on my desk from a gentleman that had found my wallet, called me multiple times and contacted the local police department, all in an effort to return something that didn't belong to him. Not only did this show remarkable integrity, but the time commitment it took to continually follow-up with a complete stranger was nothing short of amazing. The wallet and contents were returned, INCLUDING the cash.
As the one who benefited form this generous act it was easy to be appreciative, however, what happens when the tables are turned? In a recent conversation I had with an individual suffering from some form of mental illness, I spent roughly 40 minutes on the phone being criticized, insulted, yelled at and told I was a fraud looking to prey on vulnerable people due to the type of service we provide. During the mostly one sided conversation I was patient, soft spoken and willing to listen for an opportunity to help someone who was clearly locked in a mental battle with themselves looking for someone to help break their cycle. As I continued to listen, I looked for an opportunity to extend a helping hand. It was clear that I had a tough road ahead in order to help with recovery but I was reminded of why it is we do what we do, we are here to help. This particular individual is struggling with a hoarding disorder that has her perplexed like so many others. She told me repeatedly that she doesn't understand why she is a hoarder and understands her actions aren't rational but can't help herself. My heart breaks for those who are struggling to this capacity and I listened and extended a hand throughout each verbal jab. I did my best to find common ground in which we can build from. I'm sad to say this individual was not ready to accept help, however I'm optimistic I planted a seed in which she will be able to obtain help when she is ready.
So why try? Why did the man return my wallet? Why spend a portion of your morning on the phone with a stranger that's casting insults? From my perspective, I see a society that is generally willing to step outside of their own commitments to reach someone in need. We all know what it feels like to lose a wallet, but many of us do not understand how to professionally treat and overcome mental challenges. With educational programs in place and social campaigns highlighting issues that have historically been left in the dark, it has had a positive impact on those looking to recognize the signs of addiction, mental illness and suicide. At Bio-One we take these issues seriously and understand how powerful they can be. For me personally, as with most of you, we understand that lending a helping hand can come with some form of burden, however it's worth the time and effort to take on the social responsibility if it means making a positive impact in someones life when they need it most.